Trust

We discussed the issue of attachment in couple relationships for you.

The roots of attachment are deep and go back to childhood. The situation that determines the attachment style is the relationship that the baby establishes with the caregiver. According to John Bowlby Attachment can occur in 3 ways. These can be listed as secure attachment, anxious attachment and avoidant attachment type.

Specialist Clinical Psychologist Özgenur Taşkın, who stated that sudden traumatic events such as earthquakes and natural disasters increase one’s coping strength, said that if crises can be transformed, he can give lessons, and this is called transforming trauma.

When faced with the reality of cheating, both spouses should accept the fact of cheating, and then, knowing that cheating is one of the most important marital crises, they should avoid reactive behaviors and sudden decisions in order not to further damage the relationship.

MARRIAGE AFTER CHEATING

Up to 43% of the acutely injured patients in natural disasters are children, and after the disaster, children are not only affected physically, but also face many problems in terms of leaving their place of residence, losing family members, communication, transportation and education. Natural disasters are quite different from the ordinary stresses encountered in childhood in that they usually occur suddenly, are unusual, unpredictable and cannot be prepared physically and mentally. Trauma that may occur due to earthquake experience can have multifaceted and complex effects on children. A young child who has been through a disaster may not worry about where and how their next meal will come, but may worry about losing their favorite toy. I can cope with the situation in which the child’s disaster is understood and shared by the family and school, which are two important institutions in his social environment, and the support, solidarity and help he will receive from these two sources.

People with an anxious-insecure attachment style have the ability to feel intensely that the relationship is under threat. At the slightest hint that something is wrong, it activates the anxious attachment system, and once this mechanism is set in motion, the partner cannot calm down until they receive the signal that he is truly there and that the relationship is safe. They have a lot of thoughts like what would I do if they think about the worst scenario, but there is no point in killing yourself before you die, this is not logical and realistic. A constant perception of danger can cause the person to display more reactive behaviors and show his anger at a higher pitch.

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