Respect, also expressed as reverence; it means to value, to be decent, to be careful, measured and attentive. Every positive behavior between spouses, every good word spoken is an expression of respect. A person should at least not withhold from his life partner the tolerance and understanding he shows to an outside friend. While swallowing or laughing at someone else; Why do you quarrel with your spouse? Does your conscience raise your conscience to be rude to your spouse at home, in response to being treated as “Ma’am…” against a lady you have never met outside?
Spouses, who are extremely kind, tolerant and loving towards each other before marriage, can change their thoughts after marriage. “Is it official between husband and wife?” they can shelve the respect between them. However, respect is a main vein that feeds love and at the same time it is a dress that protects it.
Peace in the family occurs when everyone fulfills their duties properly. If everyone knows their responsibility and tries to overcome it as much as they can, problems will be overcome quickly.
But this is not enough. From time to time, there may be situations that require spouses to greet each other with tolerance and to treat each other with tolerance. At that time, the tolerance and understanding that a person shows at least to an outside friend is from his life partner; He should not be afraid of the mother or father of his children.
Of course, nobody is perfect. But if the parties make sincere efforts, tolerance and happiness will automatically enter the house.
Did he come home empty-handed?
The food may not be produced that day for various reasons, or the breakfast, which is always prepared on time, may be delayed that day. The man can forget what he should bring when he comes in the evening, maybe because of lack of money, maybe because of distraction.
In such cases;
You may well say, “The lady is very tired with the children, and I need to support her by holding on to the work.” Your wife may also act like this: “Don’t worry, my husband; We manage with what’s at home. We are not hungry, thank goodness!
NOTE: It is both possible and very easy to read the article in the same format from the point of view of husbands, on the subject of the “gentleman” who deserves to be treated with the most respect.
Do not forget about kindness and mercy to your spouse.
Love is important, but it is not enough on its own. Respect, which is the guardian of love, is also needed. The way of love passes through respect and reverence, and even more importantly, “compassion”, “compassion”.
Contrary to love and affection, compassion expresses love that is fed without expecting anything in return. As a matter of fact, parents do not expect any response in their feelings towards their children. They love them tenderly. The return of this compassion and love comes back in the form of respect when the parents get old. Likewise, to the love between spouses, it is necessary to add the word mercy. Because when they get old, they love each other on the basis of compassion and mercy.
