Unfortunately, domestic violence, which is one of the most common forms of violence, but is mostly kept behind closed doors because it takes place within the framework of private relationships, is unfortunately too much to be underestimated in our society. Today, domestic violence is mostly seen as violence perpetrated by men against women and can be defined as “the endangerment of an individual’s life, body, psychological integrity or freedom by using force or force”. The types of violence experienced by women in the family are;
1. Neglect, which means insufficient physical and emotional attention
2. Emotional-psychological violence, which means lack of understanding, love and sympathy
3. Verbal violence consisting of threats, humiliation, contempt, intimidation, harassment, etc.
4. Physical violence such as shoving, slapping, wounding, beating, burning, etc.
5. Sexual violence, which is a higher dimension of physical violence, such as incest, rape, forced to watch pornographic images
6. It can be listed as economic violence that occurs when men regularly use their economic resources and money as a threat and control tool on women. The family is where the basic physiological needs of the individual are met, the person feels safe, protected and taken care of; it is the most basic institution in which he receives love and respect; For this reason, the trauma experienced by the individual in the family is perceived as much more destructive than any trauma from the outside, the sense of trust can be destroyed and he may feel guilty over time.
Ways to Cope with Violence
Don’t see yourself as responsible for your experiences.
Remember that you are not to blame for the violence.
Violence is a crime and no one has the right to treat you that way.
Don’t hide it because you’re ashamed to tell what you’ve been through.
Sharing your experiences with people you trust will help you cope with this situation.
Don’t try to ignore it and put up with what you’re going through. No one has to endure violence.
If you are experiencing physical and sexual violence, do not hesitate to apply to the centers that will help you in this matter where women who have been subjected to violence can take shelter.
