He was right in front of me at the right time, there was a step between us, he was letting me enter his mysterious world with his misty curious eyes and enigmatic gaze. It was as if a painting I had drawn as a child came to life. I was being drawn into it with small timid steps… EY LOVE…
How big it grows in our eyes, it almost becomes a deity in love. He only sees her, our distorted eyes focused on seeing only the good. (This is until a glasses that can be worn while in love is invented) He has the best and most beautiful of everything. His car, his table is always that… His eating is different from everyone else, he holds the glass differently. Because he and the others are now. If it exists, we can walk the streets until the morning without sleeping all night. We love what he likes and hate what he dislikes. We sway to the same music, we laugh at the same things. When we are near, the sky gets closer, the stars are crowned in our hair. We take wings, we fly, happiness finds its meaning in our hearts. We become full, as if we are half our whole life… It is on our minds every moment, day and night, its absence is almost like an unbearable addiction. We want him to make surprises and tell you he loves you without getting tired of it. Because we can say every second without getting tired. It becomes obsessive most of the time, we cannot share it, we are jealous. If the relationship stumbles a little, despair will eat away at us, we will lose control… LOVE is such a series of feelings that makes you say you would die for it… It has been the subject of so many movies, songs, poems, novels, paintings, and there are so many myths and legends. Sometimes it’s intense, sometimes it’s lighter, but it’s a nice feeling. Finding ourselves in another. Feeling so valuable and special…
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