As with all natural disasters, the child’s developmental characteristics and age must be taken into account when making a statement about an earthquake. Emphasizing that it is necessary to tell the earthquake according to the age of the child, Anadolu Health Center Specialist Psychologist Ezgi Dokuzlu gave important information about how to treat children according to age groups and how to communicate.
2-6 years
Try to explain the information to be taught with visuals or activities.
-Use rhythms or songs to help them understand more easily while teaching new information.
-Speak in a calm tone and use plain language.
-Since attention span is short, do short activities of 10-15 minutes or interesting conversations of 1-2 minutes.
Explain with questions and answers.
Children in this age group are aware of their own and others’ emotions. So share your own feelings as well.
7-12 years
During this period, their self-confidence, independence and differences begin to develop. Therefore, while chatting, emphasize that you respect their opinions as well.
-Describe events with child-centered stories and characters. Get them to understand with empathy.
-Abstract thinking skills about events begin to develop. Now he can easily think about events that he does not see as concrete. Now you can talk to him more easily about abstract concepts. Show their opinion that you care.
They begin to become more aware of taking responsibility for their own actions. Therefore, they may feel guilty. Remind us that there may be factors beyond our control about the causes and consequences of what happened.
13-18 years
This age group often takes irrational risks. They also resist adult responsibility. You should communicate in a friendly, understanding and authoritative manner.
They may often experience mood swings, outbursts, or emotional outbursts. Therefore, you should approach it with patience.
– Emphasize that you respect his personality in sentences, and convey that you are happy to share his ideas with you.
– Tell him that you are always open to communication when he wants to talk.
-Speak with respect, not pressure; Avoid condescending words and accusatory statements.
Source: (BYZHA) – Beyaz News Agency
