One of the situations that sometimes becomes a problem in the sexual intercourse of couples is vaginismus. It is known as vaginismus (postponing disease), which has become the anxious dream of many women. Gynecologist, Sex Therapist, Gynecology and Obstetrics Specialist Op.Dr.Esra Demir Yüzer gave valuable information about vaginismus and its treatment.
Vaginismus is a disease that can be treated, but if it is not treated, it harms marriages. Vaginismus is an issue that the lady has barely gathered her heart to come to treatment. In this state, vaginismus is also called “postponing disease”.
Vaginismus is the contraction of the pelvic floor (lower floor) muscles, that is, the muscles surrounding the vagina, against the will of the woman during sexual intercourse, and the ligament becomes impossible or painful due to the narrowing of the vaginal entrance.
Vaginismus is not a disease. Vaginismus is a matter of sexual harmony. It is the result of subconscious problems. Vaginismus is a problem of sexual phobia. Exaggerated and terrible sexual stories experienced in the past or heard from others cause this phobia to develop. Vaginismus is a subconscious worry disorder that develops as a result of wrong teachings from childhood, which is more common in closed societies. Although very rarely, it can also be caused by congenital or subsequent problems in the vagina.
Known as First Night Fear
In some societies, there are some teachings that have been taught behaviorally and emotionally to girls since childhood, which can cause vaginismus when they grow up. These are the items that the genitals should not be touched, the legs should be kept closed, and so on. Vaginismus is the first night terror. First night terror occurs when women share their terrible sexual experiences before marriage.
The woman raises this concern in her mind so much that she cannot have sexual intercourse with her beloved wife, despite her desires, due to involuntary vaginal and body contractions. Vaginismus is also seen in women who love their spouses. These ladies enjoy making love, their sexual desires are very suitable. However, sexual intercourse does not occur due to contractions that they do not even realize during the entry of the penis into the vagina.
These contractions may be in the legs, hips, arms or only the lower floor muscles so that some women cannot open their legs. In women who only have contractions in the lower base muscles, the tip of the penis enters the vagina, but cannot progress. Couples talk about this situation by saying “there is a wall, it hits the wall, it is not possible, it does not progress”. There are many women who get pregnant in this way and have vaginismus problems.
Vaginismus is a problem that the woman can hardly gather her strength to come to treatment. In this state, vaginismus is also called “postponing disease”. The lady always has an excuse not to come to treatment. However, the treatment of vaginismus is a 100% issue. All it takes is for the woman to trust herself and her sex therapist.
Vaginismus treatment is generally a very comfortable and easy process and is administered to the patient in a form suitable for the patient’s suffering. One of the processes that vaginismus patients are most worried about is what they will encounter in the treatment, whether they will be asked what they are afraid to do or not.
In particular, examination, finger exercises become more nightmare for vaginismus patients than ligaments. Vaginismus treatment is a process based on the ability to manage one’s fears and anxieties, to think clearly, and to see and live the facts. The treatment plan is arranged according to the identity and personality structure of the patient. While some patients overcome their problems only with information, some patients may need to go down to their mother, father and childhood ties. In some patients, behavioral exercises and suggestions are beneficial. On the other hand, it can be applied to some patients by combining treatment formulas containing each system, which we call combi. As a result, the treatment method to be chosen is chosen in accordance with the patient, and the things that the patient is suffering from, uncomfortable, afraid to do are not wanted. As a whole, the individual is taught the ingenuity of controlling his emotions.
A Professional Supplement is a Must!
It should be noted that; sexuality should not be a situation that should be postponed or escaped in marriage. If vaginismus is not treated, it can become such a big problem that it can even cause marriages to end. It should also be noted that divorce is not a cure for vaginismus. In sexual intercourse with a different man, the problem of vaginismus will continue. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary to seek professional help.
We have treated thousands of patients from all over Turkey and even abroad. There are so many cases that there are patients whose treatment we complete in 1 hour, sometimes in 1 day, sometimes in 3 days.
The common words of women after vaginismus treatment: “I wish I had come earlier.” In order not to say I wish, the treatment should not be postponed.
Do not forget that without delay, you can get rid of this disease in a short time with an accurate specialist in the real center. In this way, you can continue your marriage in a satisfied state without being worn out financially and morally.
