unrelated relationships

Human nature is a creature that needs relationships. Individuals who come together with this need want to see that they are accepted and understood in that relationship. And to the extent that a person feels accepted, he leaves himself to that relationship. In family counseling sessions, we see that the number of couples who have not been able to leave themselves to their relationships and spouses despite being together for many years is not small. Couples who live with each other like a hotel but cannot be with each other…
Therefore, every couple or every relationship has a capacity to withstand the negativities they experience. It is inevitable for individuals to experience sad things when they reach the border point.
What we do in individual or couples counseling today is to search for ways to gain the ability to look at the problems experienced with a solution-oriented approach against the destructive effects of relationships. And the consultant provides the necessary support as a third eye from the outside.
Relationship is like a dance with another. And your life that accompanies your dance constantly changes its rhythm and music. If you cannot keep up with this changing rhythm, you cannot resist conflicts.
Right here, the way to preserve the good and make room for the better can be by improving our problem-solving skills. The greatest success is the person’s ability to search for the best way and method and present it to himself.
Sometimes the solution should not ignore getting support when necessary to create these solutions. You can find what works best for you. As long as you listen to your inner voice a little more attentively.