HOW PARENTS SHOULD BE ACTIVE IN THE SITUATION OF CONTINUOUS CONFLICT AND FIGHT BETWEEN SISTER
Parents can make self-criticism about the situation caused by the problem, both in terms of family dynamics and their own understanding of parenting. In addition, they can conduct research on the developmental period of children and work on the needs of children. For example, in the event of a conflict arising from sibling jealousy, the problem is expected to be resolved by assigning various responsibilities to the older child. By showing photos of childhood to the older child, suggestions can be made that he was once in need and that he will meet the needs of his brother when he grows up, just like you do. However, reconciliation can be achieved in conflicts between two brothers by giving responsibilities to the older brother in the shopping to be made to the younger sibling. Again, it can be conveyed to the older sibling that the younger sibling is carried on the lap because he cannot walk, and when he can walk like you, he will not be carried on the lap. In addition, by displaying a balanced and fair parental attitude in relations with children, children can be made aware of their self-confidence and their own values, and better understand the love that comes from their parents.
In order to create a culture of reconciliation in conflict situations, children’s ideas can be taken and children can be better expressed in this way. Thus, children can express themselves better by understanding better what needs to be done both in conflict situations among themselves and in possible conflicts they may experience in the future. If the results cannot be obtained despite the suggestions, the help of a psychological counselor who deals with children can be sought. Professional support can be helpful for both parents and children to understand their problems and find a solution.
How should parents behave in case of constant conflict and quarrel between siblings
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