I am serving you with Istanbul Üsküdar and Kocaeli psychological therapy centers. For the clients who come to our center for the treatment of vaginismus, we apply personalized and double-specific therapy in five stages, resulting in results. Don’t worry, we don’t want any kind of sexual intercourse or anything else in the center.
By providing personalized and couple-specific information and therapy, you do it as homework, in your own safe space, and with your partner when you are ready for sexual intercourse.
The five stages applied in psychotherapy are as follows.
·Stage -1 : Identifying a couple or individual problem
Stage -2: Personal subconscious configuration
Stage -3: Couple and individual psychotherapy
Stage -4: Couple and individual psychological counseling
Stage -5: Couple harmony and happy married life
1- Couple and Personal Psychotherapy
Psychoeren sexual therapy center offers special therapy for women and couples. You can always think of it as a standard in the articles, books you read and other colleagues you talk to.
However, although the problem is thought to be based on women, sometimes the problem can be overcome by applying special therapy to the male client due to erection problems in men, premature ejaculation, unsympathetic and hasty spouse problems.
In the process of vaginismus treatment, we first determine the source of the problem, that is, whether the situation that creates the problem is caused by the man or the woman. We determine the emotion, thought and event that creates the problem by talking about childhood, youth, adulthood, family structure, social environment in mutual interaction, whichever one of the women or men has the situation.
2- Dual and Personal Subconscious Configuration
By identifying the problem in the treatment process of inability to have intercourse, we make you aware of the negative and bad thoughts in childhood and youth, which cause the situation in men and women, with our subconscious structuring technique, and we save you from negative thoughts by subconscious structuring.
3- Couple and Personal Vaginismus Treatment
We first inform the male and female couple, who are aware of the inability to have intercourse, and then we prepare our couples who have problems with their homework for a happy union.
Female-Specific Vaginismus Treatment
The woman with whom we identified the problem at the beginning of the therapy may be offended by her body as a result of negative feelings, thoughts and bad events in her past life, and may have a lack of information about her body because she describes her sexuality as shameful, sin, and her vagina clean or dirty.
In the process of vaginismus treatment, we give recognition therapies about the special body and vagina region to women in this situation. In severe cases, we first make the woman realize her own body, then realize her husband’s body, increase their feelings of pleasure, and ensure that they unite with her husband in harmony.
Male-Specific Vaginismus Treatment
For the diagnosed male partner problem, we repair the damaged area with the subconscious restructuring technique of negative thoughts in childhood, youth and adulthood, according to the past life story of the problem in the man, and apply therapies for situations such as erection problem or premature ejaculation.
In our center, we provide the male client with practical information on how to behave for his wife, and how to cooperate with the man in overcoming the problem.
4- Couple and Personal Vaginismus Treatment Psychological Counseling
In couples who cannot have sexual intercourse, new situations may occur that are not seen in their later processes and may occur later. In these cases, we provide psychological therapy about the new situation by making an appointment via phone, e-mail, our facebook page or through Üsküdar and Izmit vaginismus centers.
5- Couple Harmony and Happy Marriage
Couples who cannot have a full relationship with their spouses are often not successful in having a one-time union. What is important for us is that couples experience sexuality in harmony by getting common pleasure.
For this reason, after experiencing the first sexual intercourse experience, we provide consultancy services regarding the problems and problems experienced in the following days.
Sexual Game Based and Double Pleasure Compatible Vaginismus Treatment
We teach psychotherapy and sexual play therapy to couples in our clinics to help couples overcome the disease as quickly as possible.
Couples do this play therapy when they go home, in their own safe environment, when appropriate.
We are trying to ensure that the penis and vagina unite in a painless and painless way, with the woman’s sufficient sense of pleasure and correct control of the pelvic muscles, not as a forced homework.
As a psychoeren psychological services center, we offer a painless, drug-free psychological solution. We provide psychotherapy for permanent vaginismus treatment by identifying the factor that creates the problem together with past life stories in 5 stages in our therapies.
As psychologists, we complete our therapies without medication and without finger exercises.
natural methods
It is told that you can drink alcohol as natural treatment methods and that you can get rid of the herpes with some herbs.
My advice is don’t try anything that doesn’t make sense to you first.
For real success, the problems in men and women should be accepted, and after determining the root cause of the problem with a psychologist, you can have a happy sexual life with psychotherapy, including hypnosis, if necessary.
How long is it treated?
Depending on the situation of the couple, it can be resolved in 1 session or it can be longer. The factor here varies according to the fact that the problem is only in women, and there are problems involving both men and women.
As Psychoeren Psychology, we provide solutions to vaginismus in 3 sessions. Our preliminary meetings are free of charge, and if you meet the appropriate conditions for treatment, the sessions will begin immediately afterwards.
The duration varies according to the type and level of the problem, and if we try to generalize the processes, we have achieved most of them in 3 different time periods.
Our therapies are conducted in accordance with the customs and traditions of our society. We do not practice sexual intercourse in the clinic.
Every woman’s problem is unique, there is no same. The duration may vary depending on the technique applied, the attitudes of the therapists, and the application situations of the couples, you apply behavioral therapy to the woman, you solve the problem in the first week, you apply hypnosis to another woman, she will overcome her problem in 1 day, in fact, which technique will be applied to which person gains importance.
I have been seeing couples undergoing treatment for 4-5 years. There are no therapists, physicians, specialists or centers that they did not go to in Turkey, in this case, couples also have a great responsibility. It is important to persevere in problem solving. The expectations of couples who constantly change centers and therapists can be very different, they generally want a magic wand to touch and the problem to be over, but unfortunately there is no such magic wand in the world, every job has its difficulties, troubles and difficulties. I can eat but I can’t chew at all. If we want to taste the food, we will have to take the trouble of chewing.
What are the Recommended Vaginismus Treatment Techniques?
We consider such an approach disrespectful to the patient/client. Does the client not have the rationale to separate the good from the bad, the bad from the good? Now I put myself in the place of the sultan: Do not go to this, do not visit this specialist, remember that technique is bad, I have neither the right nor the authority to say, therefore, our clients and patients are sane people and they can make their own decisions.
Dear visitor, which specialist, which technique or method is on your mind, you go, if it doesn’t fit your logic, you don’t go, if you want, you go to the specialist’s clinic, you can have intercourse under his supervision, if you don’t want to accept it, you make the right decision yourself. Here, the decision is yours.
3 Session Therapy
‘Resistance breakdown’ or ‘Shock therapy’: We usually take couples who come from far away and have time problems for 3 sessions of therapy. Couples who have been married for 10 years, 15 years, 20 years and have problems can participate in this process.
2-Day Therapy
In 2-day treatments, we take couples who are closer to the solution, whose time is limited, where the root of the problem is not deep.
One-Week Treatments
No problem with time. We take clients who are available and who are not in a hurry.
We bid farewell to our guests by applying treatments that will ensure their physical, mental and subconscious integrity and togetherness for a week. We decide together which of these three treatment methods we will apply.
We help in solving the problem and we do not leave it until the result is reached.
We have friends who do this job other than us. They are also successful in reaching a solution, and we applaud and congratulate everyone who does their job well. We apply short-term psychotherapy to those who want it, and long-term psychotherapy to those who want it. In our psychoeren psychology center, we apply all the techniques applied in the world and in Turkey. There is no technique that we do not know or apply. You are practicing in short-term therapy. But why don’t some experts recommend short-term treatments?
We have divided the process of integration and adjustment into two in psychotherapies. While sexual intercourse is achieved in a short time, the adaptation process takes time. It is not possible to complete the sexual adaptation process in a short time with current techniques.
Friends who oppose short-term therapies do not distinguish between these processes. We do not claim that we have changed all the psychological thought processes of the person within 2 hours.
Our primary goal is the realization of sexual intercourse, our secondary goal is to change negative psychological processes over time. In how many minutes does the couple who have no problems make love and reunite under normal conditions? Let’s say 2 minutes, if we spread the relationship in 2 minutes to months and years, there are things that are not right and we therapists are wasting time. Now, if we get up and shout about a problem that is too big to be solved in a single session, if we criticize it, are we doing good for our clients, or are we doing them a disservice?
“The problem is so big that ‘Now, how does the subconscious message of the lady reading this word get?” Isn’t that the way therapists condition their clients in a negative way? How does this word differ from saying ‘you will die in 1 month’? Couples are already having problems. As our therapist said, the problem will be solved in a long time. Is it? The union, which takes 2 minutes under normal conditions, takes place in 2 hours, in 2 days, as long as the couples are ready.
Can Anyone Join?
Therapy is a collaborative, collective work activity. Now you’re going to play a football match, of course you get compatible people to work with on your team, the same is true at work, choosing friends to work with.
When everything is considered as “money”, we will of course get paid in order to continue our lives and to help most people, but for us, job satisfaction is more important than money, we should do what we do with love.
I don’t want to do the job that I feel bad about, working with mismatched therapists or couples becomes pure torture over time, it is important to establish positive communication with the couples who come to us, I must get positive electricity from the couples.
Our client tells; Sir, we went to such and such a specialist. I was disgusted when I saw the man’s face and we applied what he gave, but it did not work, the problem continues.
Would you accept a gift from someone you don’t like? If you do not warm to the therapist, please do not attend the session. This is my opinion of course, it binds me. I don’t take couples who can’t get positive electricity to therapy, I recommend them to work with other therapists. This is important for my client and me because negativity complicates the solution. Why should both parties be disappointed? So in therapy, HARMONY between me and my clients is important, if you like the teacher of a course, you will like the lesson, if you do not like the teacher, you will not like the lesson, the same goes for the therapist. If you love the therapist, you will love therapy, if you don’t, you cannot love therapy. I can refer people that I do not warm to another therapist.
Harmony between spouses is our second rule. We meet with the spouses and separately, if the couples are incompatible, if there is unrest between them, if they are considering separation, we do not take them to therapy again, and we usually take the couples together.
We want the husband and wife to attend the sessions together, and we do not allow relatives such as parents, even if they are first-degree, except for the spouse, to the session, we keep them waiting in the waiting room.
It is vital for couples that couples want therapy together, sometimes a man or a woman does not want, and sometimes a woman or a man does not want.
Fees
Vaginismus fees vary greatly depending on the technique applied, the experience of the specialist, his long experience in the profession, his certificates, if it is done in state hospitals or SSK.
In our center, our vaginismus treatment fees are moderate, with our 20 years of experience, we will provide permanent vaginismus treatment in the shortest way and you will have a happy home.
