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Sibling Jealousy That Concerns Parents

Every individual is faced with various responsibilities that he must fulfill throughout his cognitive, affective and psychomotor development from the moment he is born (Yıldırım, 2016). There are responsibilities that exist in almost all societies and in our daily lives, within the family, that parents must fulfill towards their children and that they are responsible for meeting their child’s physical and emotional needs.

Divorce potentially brings with it a series of changes that will seriously affect the development of children, and in this sense, it is defined as a trauma for the child. This trauma is experienced as a kind of loss-mourning reaction. The child may feel that he has left home or lost his parent with whom he cannot live. A new anxiety brought about by this feeling and thought is the fear that he will lose his other parent. These dynamics may lead to different psychological reactions in children and adolescents according to different ages. On the other hand, a child who grows up in an uneasy environment with serious disagreements and fights may also be exposed to traumatic effects.

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Before and during the divorce, the biggest fight is over the child. In this intense tension, the child finds himself in the middle of his parents’ conflict. As if this is not enough, parents force the child to take sides around the nightmare of losing the child or the fear of being right. This is the hardest thing for a child. Because the child depends on both mother and father and loves both. As if forcing the child to take sides is not enough, they continue their problems through the child after the divorce. One and both spouses try to justify by vilifying each other. One parent tries to punish or take revenge by not showing the child to the other parent. Here, they overlook that the person who suffers the real harm is the child. Some fathers may not see the child for months after breaking up with their spouse. Another group of fathers does not break ties with the child and break the relationship. These parents do whatever the child says in order to attract the child to their side.

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