“It didn’t come all at once, I don’t expect it to go away”
With the inspiration I got from the words of my client who said….
You know what doesn’t come right away? Physical disorders, anger control problems, communication problems, anxiety disorders, depression, obsessions, defenses, avoidances, burnouts, reluctance, sleep disorders in eating, etc. Whatever disrupts our function in daily life cannot have come all at once. Yet we are in such a hurry to go quickly.
Also, he didn’t come alone. He brought a big bag with him, there are childhood experiences, mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, difficult experiences, maybe transfers from generations ago waiting to be noticed, understood and brought to the surface…
As such, the miracle expected from the therapy process is not in getting well and getting up in a few months, but in the voyage of discovery we make slowly backwards without rushing.
For this reason, in the first 2-3 or even 4 months of the consultancy process, your day is a little organized. But the journey we make to ourselves, to our selves, is too precious to fit 3-4.
